Love In A Pandemic: 7 Ways To Create It

Katrina Savell | 1 Feb 2021
Love In A Pandemic: 7 Ways To Create It

It’s been a little over a century since the world has seen a global pandemic. The last, in 1918, was caused by a strain of influenza known as the ‘Spanish flu’, which spread rapidly and indiscriminately across the world.

And now, in 2021, after a year of government announcements, media reports, distressing footage, cancelled flights and countries in and out of lock down (as well as a myriad of conflicting conspiracy theories), we still find ourselves in the midst of the COVID-19 global pandemic. 

How this affects your health

For the majority of us, this unfortunate reality has become our daily life, wreaking havoc on our ability to make plans, socialise and simply function in the way we have always been accustomed.   

The risks associated with contraction of the actual virus aside, there’s very few people on Earth who’ve witnessed a phenomenon like this in our lifetime

Social distancing and quarantine measures have quickly become the norm. Occurrences in the day-to-day we often take for granted such as work, plane travel, events and sport have been disrupted. This has left many of us understandably feeling out of control, fearful, and pessimistic about the future. 

Even the vaccine being rolled out globally is subject to changeable and varying views regarding its efficacy, safety and accessibility.

Which leaves many of us still feeling unsure about so many aspects of our lives.

Questions you may be constantly asking yourself include – how could my health be affected? How is this impacting my family? Is my employment secure? What is the future of the economy? Even when we reach a point of perceived normality, things are subject to often and frequent change. 

There are very few of us who like living in a world of no answers, or never quite know what's next. 

It's well documented that stress can affect your immunity, especially for prolonged periods. Lowered immunity increases your chances of contracting any illness. Especially when they are highly contagious. 

So where does love come into this?

Tinder and other dating sites set up advice on their dating apps around hygiene, hand washing and social distancing norms to reduce the risk of infection and spreading of COVID-19. 

Which stands to reason, but that’s another article, for another time.

The type of love I’m referring to is self-love. And let’s face it, when you have work commitments, children (and the ongoing potential or reality of school closures), a partner, parents and a myriad of other responsibilities, self-love at the moment sounds at best, time consuming, and at worst, narcissistic.

Well, I’m here to tell you it’s not. 

Have you heard of the oxygen mask analogy before on a plane? You always put yours on first and then others second. It’s simple. You can’t be of service to anyone else unless you are looking after yourself. 

Possibly the greatest gift you can give to family, friends, colleagues and our planet in this pandemic is to comply with your obligations as a member of the public whilst maintaining reasonable stress levels and focus on your health.

This may sound easier than it is. Self-love means being mindful of habits that don’t serve you and reserving a bit of time (even 10-15 minutes a day is enough) to do something nice  - just for you. 

7 ways to get more love and stress less in a pandemic:

1. Keep a check on your media consumption 

This is a tough one. It’s incredibly important to keep across significant developments from the media during this time of uncertainty. However the effect of reading every media report, social media post and newsfeed article can be very stressful. Set a schedule that you feel comfortable with rather than being glued to your feed constantly. It will free up your time to focus on other things.

2. Exercise 

As low to moderate-intensity exercise naturally lowers cortisol levels and helps with immune-system function, doctors recommend 30 to 60 minutes each day. If you’re worried about germs in the gym, walk or run outside in good distance from others.

3. Vitamin D

Vitamin D, also known as the "sunshine vitamin", is widely known for its benefits to bone health, however it also has a myriad of other benefits including reducing the risk of depression, some cancers, strengthening muscle and fighting infection. Research suggests even a small exposure to sunlight each day has tremendous benefits for your well being. 

4. Do something small for yourself every day 

Whatever makes you feel happy, set some time aside each day to do it. It may be drinking a cup of tea in the sunshine, a virtual yoga class, gardening or listening to a meditation or calming music. You could even start chipping away at that decluttering project for your home or garage. 

5. Get adequate sleep 

One of the greatest immune boosters is adequate sleep. Try to find a ritual or routine that assists you to fall asleep - and stay asleep each night. This may mean cutting back on news and caffeine just before bedtime - replaced with reading a good book, listening to calming music or meditation.

6. Write it all down

Spend a few minutes each day journaling – don’t worry too much about what you write just write! There is plenty of evidence to show the benefits and catharsis of this routine during stressful period of life. 

7. Gratitude

There is still so much to be grateful for. 

For instance, acknowledging the incredible work of our health professionals, emergency workers, and volunteers across the world that lie at the face of this virus treating those affected. Our teachers, who rise every day and look after our children in times of good or bad. Specialists working with governments to ‘flatten the curve’ in order to reduce the spread of infection. The media, who work around the clock to keep us up to date with news.

Our family, friends, children, pets, the outdoors and nature, the list goes on...   

Feeling loved?

All the above suggestions are to address physical, mental and spiritual health. Choose which ones work for you and include them in your daily routine.

We shouldn’t need a pandemic to remind us to look after ourselves, however it’s never too late to start.


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Meditation | SoulAdvisor

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Katrina Savell

Katrina Savell is widely regarded as a purpose-driven researcher, writer, and marcomms strategist committed to improving global health & wellness. Katrina's other passions include movement, the arts, submerging in nature and creating a wonderful future for our children.

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